Relationship Therapy for Individuals
Cultivating meaningful connection with yourself and others.
Relationships can be a source of deep connection, and they can also bring up some of our most difficult struggles. Closeness tends to reflect our own challenges back to us, including the parts of ourselves we find hardest to face.
You may be in a difficult romantic relationship or friendship, dealing with family tension, or feeling lonely and isolated. You may want closer, more fulfilling relationships and be unsure how to build or sustain them.
You might be experiencing:
Difficulty forming or maintaining close relationships
Loneliness, isolation, or a longing for deeper connection
Recurring patterns in romantic, family, or friendship dynamics
Challenges with communication, conflict, or expressing your needs
Difficulty setting boundaries while staying compassionate and connected
Feeling defined by your roles as a partner, parent, or caretaker
Our relationships are shaped by our histories, our early experiences, and the ways we learned to protect ourselves and connect with others. Therapy is a space where you can work towards understanding your relational patterns with more compassion so that you can move away from harmful cycles that leave you frustrated, lonely, or unfilled.
We might explore:
How your family history and early relationships shape your current patterns
Communicating more openly and working through conflict
Healthier boundaries and greater self-trust
Your emotional needs and expectations in relationships
Building more meaningful connections
Meaningful connection begins with understanding ourselves. I draw on relational, somatic, and psychodynamic approaches to help you recognize the patterns that influence your relationships, so there is room for new ways of connecting.
Building healthier, more authentic relationships
How We Might Work Together
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Relational Therapy
Feeling safe and understood is where this work begins. Our relationship gives you a place to practice being open and honest, and to experience a connection that feels trustworthy.
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Psychodynamic Exploration
We explore how early relationships, family dynamics, and past experiences shape the way you connect with others, and identify the patterns that keep recurring.
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Somatic Awareness
You notice how your body responds during conflict, vulnerability, or closeness. This awareness can help you recognize your emotional needs and stay connected to yourself during difficult conversations.
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IFS-Informed Parts Work
Some parts of you long for connection, while others fear rejection, seek approval, or guard against being hurt. Understanding these dynamics can help you approach relationships with more compassion, clarity, and self-trust.
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ACT & CBT
We develop practical tools for communication, boundaries, and conflict resolution, and for acting in line with your values even when it’s uncomfortable.
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Earth-Based Psychotherapy
Nature-based metaphor, symbolism, and ritual offer ways to reflect on connection, boundaries, and belonging, and to acknowledge the role we all play in the whole.